Divorce Can Be Really Really Hard…

You thought you were doing okay You had this. It’s just a divorce. You can do it. But its been months and you are not doing so well – oh you put up a good front – you smile when appropriate and say all the right things, but inside you are dying and you can’t figure out why the F**K you can’t just get over it – but you CAN’T and you are slowly dying trying and you don’t know what to do to make it better. You WANT to be OKAY. You WANT to move on. To get on with your life –but you are stuck. And scared. And lonely. And you miss him and the life you had. You’re angry at him. At the universe. At yourself.You want so badly to get better. To LEARN and GROW from this experience. To not make it this big horrible negative thing that consumes your life.

I know. Oh do I know. I’ve been there. Running from the emotional pain of a divorce I did not want, but had to go through with. Wanting to rebuild my life, but not knowing how – knowing the tools were there, but not being able to access them. Wanting to be seen. Heard. Understood. Acknowledged. Feeling so freaking alone. Divorce can be painful. It is as someone once told said, “death without the casseroles.” It is a death. The death of a dream. The death of a life shared. The death of what you once believed about life and love when you were young and a bit idealistic. The death of a relationship that you have poured a part of yourself into. The death of an investment to which you saw no return. At the time it just hurts. A lot. That deep soul, gut-wrenching painful panic fear of knowing your life has been altered forever and there is nothing you can do to fix it.

The pain that has you waking up at night gasping and shaking knowing something is horribly wrong and then the crushing realization that it is not a nightmare. That your husband is not there to comfort you and he never will be – no matter how many times you close your eyes and wish it. What you need is your person. The one that is 100% there for you. That believes in YOU. Holds your hand, but also kicks your ass when the pity party gets too intense. The one you can ask any question – scream cry yell rant. You can be totally yourself – no pretending to be okay when you are a mess inside. Who will listen. Give you a plan. Action. Help you rebuild your life. Because I see you. You are amazing and strong – and you may have gotten knocked down – but you will get up again. You are beautiful and gifted. You can do this. You will do this. I can help you… Find your passion again… Get unstuck. Find yourself again.

Emerge from your divorce stronger, more self-confident, and with a new direction for your life. I would be honored to be the person you choose to help you re-craft your life and move forward into your full potential. I offer a COMPLEMENTARY half hour coaching session to get to know each other and see if we would work well together. And no matter what REMEMBER – you will not only survive this – you will THRIVE. You’ve got this. So how does this work? Okay, so you have the option of signing up for 30 days of coaching (4 sessions), 60 days of coaching (8 sessions) or 90 days of coaching (12 sessions).  I personally believe that it takes a minimum of 8 sessions to really get the full benefit of a coaching relationship and get into the real issues and provide serious healing.

Each month of coaching costs $500 and includes email support.  It also includes a workbook with exercises and ideas for rebuilding your life and getting unstuck.  I will personally work with you to create a personalized plan for YOU that addresses your specific needs and issues. Rest assured, I’ve got this. How We Connect we’ll meet every week for an hour via phone or Skype. Unlimited email support. I will answer within 48 hours, usually sooner. READY TO INVEST IN YOURSELF? You can schedule a session right HERE